What to Do If Someone Posts Your Nudes Online: A Survival Guide

That sudden chill in your chest — it’s real. Finding out that someone has shared your private photos online is devastating. Whether it’s an ex, a blackmailer, or a stranger, this isn’t just a breach of trust. It’s a violation of your safety, dignity, and peace of mind.

If you're reading this, take a breath. You’re not alone — and there are steps you can take right now.

1. Don't React Publicly

The first instinct might be to confront the person, post about it, or try to explain yourself. Don’t. Emotional reactions often give the blackmailer or abuser more control. Stay calm, document everything, and prepare to act strategically.

2. Take Screenshots as Evidence

Before anything is taken down, take full screenshots:

• The profile/page where it's posted

• The URL link (if available)

• Timestamp and visible usernames

This is crucial for any legal action or takedown request later.

3. Report the Content Immediately

Most platforms like Instagram, Facebook, Reddit, and Twitter have strict rules against non-consensual intimate content (NCII). Use these direct links:

• Facebook/Instagram NCII reporting: Report to Meta

• Twitter/X: Use their privacy violation form

• Reddit: Report under "involuntary pornography"

4. File a Takedown Request

Use content removal forms:

• Google Webform (for search results): Google NCII Takedown

• Porn sites: Many have NCII reporting tools

5. Secure Your Accounts

If the leak happened through a hacked phone or social media account:

• Change your passwords immediately

• Enable 2FA (two-factor authentication)

• Review app permissions and login history

6. Get Professional Help

This is where you don’t have to do it alone. Teams like ours at Blackmail Shield specialize in:

• Tracking down who posted the content

• Removing it quickly from search engines & hosting sites

• Securing your digital identity

The faster you act, the more damage you can prevent.

7. Know That the Shame Isn’t Yours

This is the hardest part: separating your emotions from the situation.

But here’s the truth — the person who shared your photos is the one who committed a crime. You didn’t “ask for it.” You’re not at fault. You deserve support, not silence.

When It Feels Overwhelming…

You can reach out. Confidentially. No judgment.

We’re here to help — whether your photos have already been posted or you fear they might be. Blackmailers thrive on panic. You don’t have to give them that power.